"you can't keep doing this.
i know you were hurt,
and i understand how traumatizing that experience was for you,
and how it undeniably justifies your cynicism.
but that relationship,
you can't let it get in the way of every new one.
if you hide your fears
behind that excuse you can always make,
that is exactly what he expects of you.
get a grip, bitch.
the problem is you."